人類大腦保護機制

今天是我第一篇作品，用我拍攝的月亮當個開頭吧!

正文開始:

最近跟很多仕途不順感情不順的好友們交談，發現似乎旁觀者與當事人視角不同、執著的事的不同

就算提出問題讓他知道、分析給他看，人還是會怯步，說著不知道不想處理。(混亂狀態?

舉例狀況:

這位為A

<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:gg sans,microsoft yahei new,微软雅黑,microsoft yahei,microsoft jhenghei,宋体,simsun,noto sans,helvetica neue,helvetica,arial,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:400; letter-spacing:normal; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:break-spaces; widows:2; word-spacing:0px"> 他說：不想再去嘗試愛了

<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:gg sans,microsoft yahei new,微软雅黑,microsoft yahei,microsoft jhenghei,宋体,simsun,noto sans,helvetica neue,helvetica,arial,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:400; letter-spacing:normal; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:break-spaces; widows:2; word-spacing:0px"> 我跟他說：我看的出來那是一種大腦保護機制，下意識隱藏你想要的東西，怕你受傷，實際上你還是很想要愛

<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:gg sans,microsoft yahei new,微软雅黑,microsoft yahei,microsoft jhenghei,宋体,simsun,noto sans,helvetica neue,helvetica,arial,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:400; letter-spacing:normal; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:break-spaces; widows:2; word-spacing:0px"> (會這麼說是因為我也曾有這樣的經歷與感受)

<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:gg sans,microsoft yahei new,微软雅黑,microsoft yahei,microsoft jhenghei,宋体,simsun,noto sans,helvetica neue,helvetica,arial,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:400; letter-spacing:normal; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:break-spaces; widows:2; word-spacing:0px"> 他跟我說：他還想再見喜歡的人一面

<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:gg sans,microsoft yahei new,微软雅黑,microsoft yahei,microsoft jhenghei,宋体,simsun,noto sans,helvetica neue,helvetica,arial,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:400; letter-spacing:normal; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:break-spaces; widows:2; word-spacing:0px"> 我就說：這就不是你不想要，只是你害怕受傷

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<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:gg sans,microsoft yahei new,微软雅黑,microsoft yahei,microsoft jhenghei,宋体,simsun,noto sans,helvetica neue,helvetica,arial,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:400; letter-spacing:normal; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:break-spaces; widows:2; word-spacing:0px"> 這位為B

<span style="-webkit-text-stroke-width:0px; display:inline !important; float:none; font-family:gg sans,microsoft yahei new,微软雅黑,microsoft yahei,microsoft jhenghei,宋体,simsun,noto sans,helvetica neue,helvetica,arial,sans-serif; font-size:16px; font-style:normal; font-variant-caps:normal; font-variant-ligatures:normal; font-weight:400; letter-spacing:normal; orphans:2; text-align:left; text-decoration-color:initial; text-decoration-style:initial; text-decoration-thickness:initial; text-indent:0px; text-transform:none; white-space:break-spaces; widows:2; word-spacing:0px"> 另一個我遇到的例子:(也就是上面的人喜歡的對象)

B保護自己的機制是，先讓自己受傷 就不會讓其他人傷，所以不斷推開對方

導致A感到冷漠、想放手，而A想放手時，卻又導致B感覺難過，不斷惡性循環

最近就在思考每個人的防禦機制，思考這些人，明知問題，但卻感到混亂的時候內心的想法，也回頭看著之前自己的經歷

也在思考自己本身會不會遇到這個問題，遇到時 如何應對 。

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